As a therapist who works with women who have experienced the trauma of sexual betrayal, this is THE primary resource I recommend to my clients. In this book, women will be given the tools to work through their personal grief, the permission to ask the hard questions, and the know-how to set healthy boundaries in their marriages. The authors speak both as professionals and from personal experience. Somehow, when the reader knows someone truly “gets” her, she will know she has been heard. As someone else shared earlier in another review, I too encourage you to buy two copies, one for you and one for a woman you will likely meet or know who is in need of support.